“ Sometimes people NEGATIVE actions or UNDER COVER intentions would make it seem like you were DUMB FOUNDED ~ Nah, the KEY is to LET them BELIEVE that you were UNAWARE then be the ELEMENT OF SURPRISE ! ”—
“Know that because you are feeling something does not mean you have to act on it the moment you are feeling it.
…For the first 30 to 60 seconds of the experience, practice KYBYS. This ancient principle, pronounced “kib-biss,” will ensure you have the appropriate expression for any emotional imbalance. KYBS means “Keep Your Big Yap Shut!”
Pull yourself together and let your brain refocus!”—Iyanla Vanzant, One Day My Soul Just Opened Up